We come across couples sometimes that seem to have it all. They have been together for a long time and still look like they are in the puppy love stage. This is possible for people and married couples, and you can keep your life long relationship alive, fun, and fresh. We may wonder why are they so lucky? What is their secret to life long love? Maybe some married couples do have some special secrets to keeping their love fresh and stable.
A great marriage consists of respect, trust, responsibility and a great sense of commitment to each other. These are some key factors that hold people together through the ups and downs a marriage can experience. Just having great sex will not keep a marriage alive and there is an intimacy that is needed that comes from the heart. This is how couples make it together.
A caring, emotional bond between two people keeps them strong and keeps both parties secure within their relationship. Many times people have affairs because they are searching for an adrenaline rush. Little do they know they can stay committed and still have this rush with their true love. There are two types of relationship that will fail such as, fun without commitment and commitment without fun.
Couples can have everything they ever wanted in a successful life long relationship. It is important they keep communicating with each other, as well as a mutual respect for each other.
There are many ways in which you can treasure each other and express your love and commitment. Some people are fearful of totally letting go with their emotions, but do not realize that this is what a relationship is all about. Let’s look at some things couples can do to keep their life long relationship fun and fresh.
*Always remind your partner how much you appreciate them and what they do. They will feel loved and appreciated when you do so.
*Make sure you spend time with your partner whether it is taking a course together, playing a sport, joining a social group, dancing or going to the movies. This will keep you close together while you share in the same interests or experience.
*Always look into your partners eyes and meet with their soul when you talk. Looking to the side or down as you speak does not keep the soul and mind connection between you.
*It is good to do something special weekly to nurture your partner whether it is giving them a massage, love notes, flowers, getting their favorite movie and just general caring. When you show you care and respect your partner you will always feel connected.
*Express to your partner how lucky you feel to have them in your life.
All of these suggestions are the basis for a successful life long relationship. There are many more things couples can do for each other, but these will get you started. Practice them and you will see amazing results.
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